Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Self Defeating Habits and Your Sun Sign with Rich Milostan
In many ways people are their own worst enemy. Very subtle self-defeating habits tend to lower people's image of themselves. How many of you get "tired" when you have to do an unwanted chore? Do you make a mountain out of a mole in a trivial everyday matter? Do you blame the past for everyday decisions? Do you listen to music, talk on the phone or watch TV when an important task is to be done? The end result is nothing accomplished and lower self esteem. Take a piece of paper and write down the various things you do that would lower your self-esteem, then find ways to overcome the problem. The first step is liking yourself to ask "Do I really want to be happy?" or do I want to practice negative behaviour patterns for attention getting?" By your sun sign we can find some self-defeating ways that may be keeping your image at low ebb. Once insight is gained, practice the technique provided to form a new positive image. Aries: At times you may be too demanding of others; then comes the corresponding anger. When you can't get your own way, you eventually become frustrated. Instead of moping, try doing a new personal goal, something easy to achieve to get your balance back. The key is to have a list of easy goals on hand to try when others are blocked. Taurus: You have the ability to hold off a grudge. It may seem manly but it is putting stress on the body and doesn't help matters with the other person. You can;t like yourself and think anger toward others at the same time. Work out the differences. If you can't agree consciously forget them by getting onto more productive matters. Gemini: one thing is to watch for is beginning a lot of tasks and not finishing them. Then you wonder why nothing concrete happens in your life. Work on a project till the end. Give yourself a reward for the job done. If the work is painstaking, think of a reward you'll give yourself when completed. Next time we will look at some more of the other sun signs. To D.T. The book "The Only Way to Learn Astrology" is a good book to start learning astrology. I teach a 5 session class on how to learn it. To G.Y. People born between 10am to noon have the highest chances of going very far in life. To set up a personal Astrological consultation with Rich Milostan, (including the Tarot), you can reach me at 1-248-528-1610 in Troy, Mi or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I also am available for phone readings and can send a taped reading to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge.