Selecting a Partner Part 1 of 4 with Rich Milostan

One of the more interesting areas of astrology I enjoy is studying relationships.
This involves taking the complete birth data of 2 people and, by computer, making a composite chart. This can be done for marriage, two friends, business partners, mother and daughter, father and son, neighbors etc. Any combination of 2 people will suffice.
With a mature attitude, no matter what sign, there is some form of compatibility, or learning that can be gained. The composite chart will show the strengths and weaknesses of the two people. If they become aware of these areas, they can help nurture each other's individuality while staying in the bonds of the relationship. Over the last 10 years the "I" or "me" is being stressed. There are all kinds of image classes being offered. This is nice for individuality, but we need more classes on learning thinking dialogues to better get along with a partner.
In my opinion there are too many articles on divorce. People see this and say 'Oh well I might as well join them". With a little insight I think more unions could be saved.
Astrologically, by your sun sign (here I will stress marriage and mates), I will show you what we look for in love, and most important, what we need to stay in a relationship.
Aries: You desire a more flamboyant type of person, someone who stands out in a crowd. This is nice, But in terms of a long relationship, you need someone who can polish, or tone down, your strong aggressiveness. You want someone to always be there while you lead others. Just don't forget him or her.
Taurus: You fall for someone who is practical, intellectual and methodical. You tend to be a little secretive. Unless you are open to the other, miscommunication is the the end result. Also you are strong-willed and want a strong-willed partner, but you need to develop flexibility, when he or she has a transitory upset. Get the problem solved and give each other a reward.
Gemini: You initially can be very romantic with someone who has beauty and is harmonious, but a part of you tends to idealize them more then what they really are. Then you become disillusioned, but its your high expectations which are the problem. Take him or her for what they are and grow together. You like intellectual conversations and you draw physically oriented people to you. Give to each other your individual strengths.
Next time we will look at Cancer, Leo and Virgo needs.

To set up a personal Astrological consultation with Rich, including the Tarot, you can reach me at 1-248-528-2610 in Troy, Mi. or email me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com. I also do phone readings and can mail a taped reading (The Perfect Birthday Gift) to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge.

Raising your Child via Astrology Part 1 of 4 with Rich Milostan

In the raising of a child, we find people have different philosophies of how they feel they should be nurtured to adulthood. One thing for sure is we don't to pass on to them insecurities our parents may have "taught" us, or those we may have "taught" ourselves. Astrology can give you some insights into what your child's behavioral patterns may be like. A question frequently asked is, "I have two Leo boys and why are they so different"? You have to see their whole chart (birth date, time of birth, and city of birth). This will show you a deeper depth of the personality. The sun sign alone does give general characteristics. If a thought below hits home, apply it to yuor child. Aries: A restless child who may like to wander, let him explore new things. They are future leaders and seek the unknown. When they become temperish ask yourself "Am I closing in him too much?" If not, don't forget firm discipline. Always give them praise: they love it. Keep them busy with challenges. Best way to handle the Aries is ask them to do something, don't tell them. Taurus: Don't try to push the child when he gets into a stubborn streak. Talk to him in a practical way. Generally a predictive personality, if they get too far off base, show them the ways to a more stable route. They love calm atmospheres. I they are irritable, check the noise level of the home. Shower them with affections for they need a steady dose. Next time we will continue looking at more of the Sun Signs To set up for a personal Astrological consultation including the Tarot you can reach Rich at 1-248-528-2610 in Troy, Mi. or email me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com. I do children's birth charts, phone readings, and can mail a taped reading (The Perfect Birthday Gift) to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge

2 People working as One - The Composite Chart with Rich Milostan

In working with relationships, we have a chart which can be done which will show how a couple will function together. This is known as a composite chart. This can be done between any 2 people: husband-wife, brother-sister, father-daughter, 2 neighbors, boss-employee, 2 business partners, aunt-stepchild etc. To have this done will requires compete birth data of both people. It is common to first look at someone and dislike the person, while others you see as a reunion. The composite chart will show the strengths, weaknesses, potential for growth, lessons to be learned, etc... which exists between 2 people. Not to get too heavy we have to see what the planets symbolize to see the different areas. Sun: Tells what the relationship exists for, the major issues, what the relationship does. Moon: Tells the area in which you feel or ought to feel, that you have in common. Mercury: How they think collectively, there dialogue. Venus: Indicates how far the relationship will allow both of you to express yourself through love. Mars: The energy drive that leads to fulfillment to the rests of the charts purpose. Jupiter: Area the will show a solid basis of growth thru the relationship. The growth area where results will occur. Saturn: Where lessons are to be learned An area of insecurity. They need to relate in that area. Limitations in the partnership. Also where things need to be structured. Uranus: Where upsets most likely will occur, have and open attitude and flexibility. Neptune: Area where you have ideals but must deal with reality Pluto: House where something goes out of existence , and a new order comes in. Ara where relationship will be transformed. Four areas must be looked at in seeking and being with a love relationship. 1) Must have a nighttime compatibility. If you like to go eat dinner at 5pm and go to sleep at 11:00pm, you must have someone similar. 2) Like to do the same fun things during the evening hours so you can be well balanced to do your individual services the next day. 3) Have along term similar vision. It it making money, a big home or moving out of state etc. 4) The nighttime cuddle time. Can you have that and feel a real good energy with someone. To set up a personal Astrological consultation, (including the Tarot) with Rich Milostan in Troy, Mi. you can reach me at 1-248-528-2610 or email me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com. I also do phone readings and can mail a taped reading (The Perfect Birthday Gift) to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge.

Choosing a Personality to be with by Rich Milostan

Each sun sign has some common characteristics that set them apart from each other. When looking for a business partner or a love interest, check the sun signs below to see what you want and don't desire in someone. The Aries, Leo and Sagittarius can be Enthusiastic, individual, spontaneous, romantic, fiery, active radiant and courageous. On the negative side, they could be too bossy, domineering and excessively impulsive. The Gemini, Libra and Aquarius communicate well, are intellectual, love movement around people, broadminded, love companionship objective or idealistic. On the negative side they may detach too much, impractical, aloof or scatter too much. The water signs of Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces are receptive, emotional romantic, changeable, compassionate. On the negative side they can be feeling sorry for yourself, Self indulge too much, hesitant in making decisions, lack assertiveness. The earth signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn are stable, practical, conservative, earthy, patient and persistent. On the negative side, too materialistic, over cautious, unorganized, dull personality and stubborn. Remember that the above are only sun sign traits. It is best to see the whole Birth chart to see the complete package of the person to see what and who you would want to associate with. In looking for people to meet of the interests you have check out meetup.com. Type in your interests and they send you emails of where a group meets with what you like to do and it is a free service. To L.S. Being your a Cancer sun sign keep a good diet for this is the time of rapid barometer changes which put people into swinging moods. Be light on salt and sager for they can magnify a mood also, To H.G. The grieving you have now will have you heal quicker if you read the book How to Survive the Loss of a Love by Harold Bloomfield. I recommend this book to people who have recently lost a pet. Your can set up a personal Astrological consultation with Rich Milostan, including the Tarot, by calling 1-248-528-2610 in Troy, Mi. or emailing me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com. I am also available for phone readings or a full taped reading mailed to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge.