Working a Second Marriage Part 1 of 4 with Rich Milostan

The high divorce rates today point to a seemingly obvious conclusion that partners don't really have a good structure to stay in a relationship year after year.

Going a step further, the children of today's divorced parents aren't having a system built.There aren't two parents from whom to take a role model. When an argument comes in a marriage, one or the other does not know what to think to handle the situation, so accumulated problems end marriages.

There is no fool-proof method to guarantee a marriage will last. In Astrology, your chart shows your particular needs which must be met to satisfy your life. Knowing your partners or potential partners chart will show if his or hers are compatible to yours. Those who have learned from their mistakes in the first marriage have a better chance in the second. If you have what you want, have goals to where you are going, then you can find a partner who can help quicken the fulfillment of some of your goals.

If you wish to make a successful second marriage or start a productive relationship with someone, it will involve somethings to avoid and some things to do. Look at your Sun Sign or your partner for a little better glimpse on what he/she may need to have a lasting relationship.

Aries: Being a fire sign, it's best to find someone more earthy or stable, but not a slow plodder. You may have married on impulse the first time, so be careful in your second choice. Patience is the key in any relationship, so watch your temper. If boredom sets in with your partnership, try to find things to do together that are adventurous to ride through through times. Aries is a "me" person but learn to compromise. Your drawn to beauty but make sure it is not a shell.

Taurus: Since you are a person who likes to get ahead materially, you should have a partner who can help satisfy that desire. Any partner that is wishy-washy about money will not last with you. You're more of a traditional person, so find someone with a similar background. If you were stubborn in the first marriage, you know that trait will not work in a second one. Seek someone who will give you emotional security in the home you will surely provide.

Gemini: You are drawn to looks but seek a relationship that offers more of a intellectual plane. You may be highly opinionated but use that on work, not on your mate. Don't find someone who has you make all the decisions. You border on the high strung side so find a more serene relationship; then set goals that modify your nervous energy. It''s important that you express your needs in black and white because one day you want to do something and the next day you don't. This could tax your partners nerves.

Next time we will look at more sun signs. Sometime it is highly recommended that you get theit chart done. You find out a lot about them when you first start going out with them

To set up an Astrological Consultation with Rich Milostan you can reach me in Troy, Mi at 1-248-528-2610 or email me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com.

Selecting a Partner Part 1 of 4 with Rich Milostan

One of the more interesting areas of astrology I enjoy is studying relationships.
This involves taking the complete birth data of 2 people and, by computer, making a composite chart. This can be done for marriage, two friends, business partners, mother and daughter, father and son, neighbors etc. Any combination of 2 people will suffice.
With a mature attitude, no matter what sign, there is some form of compatibility, or learning that can be gained. The composite chart will show the strengths and weaknesses of the two people. If they become aware of these areas, they can help nurture each other's individuality while staying in the bonds of the relationship. Over the last 10 years the "I" or "me" is being stressed. There are all kinds of image classes being offered. This is nice for individuality, but we need more classes on learning thinking dialogues to better get along with a partner.
In my opinion there are too many articles on divorce. People see this and say 'Oh well I might as well join them". With a little insight I think more unions could be saved.
Astrologically, by your sun sign (here I will stress marriage and mates), I will show you what we look for in love, and most important, what we need to stay in a relationship.
Aries: You desire a more flamboyant type of person, someone who stands out in a crowd. This is nice, But in terms of a long relationship, you need someone who can polish, or tone down, your strong aggressiveness. You want someone to always be there while you lead others. Just don't forget him or her.
Taurus: You fall for someone who is practical, intellectual and methodical. You tend to be a little secretive. Unless you are open to the other, miscommunication is the the end result. Also you are strong-willed and want a strong-willed partner, but you need to develop flexibility, when he or she has a transitory upset. Get the problem solved and give each other a reward.
Gemini: You initially can be very romantic with someone who has beauty and is harmonious, but a part of you tends to idealize them more then what they really are. Then you become disillusioned, but its your high expectations which are the problem. Take him or her for what they are and grow together. You like intellectual conversations and you draw physically oriented people to you. Give to each other your individual strengths.
Next time we will look at Cancer, Leo and Virgo needs.

To set up a personal Astrological consultation with Rich, including the Tarot, you can reach me at 1-248-528-2610 in Troy, Mi. or email me at rfmilostan@yahoo.com. I also do phone readings and can mail a taped reading (The Perfect Birthday Gift) to anyone you know in the U.S. There is no shipping charge.